Our greatest blessing has arrived!

AG is here!

June 4, 2012

4:22 pm

8lbs 14oz

21 3/4 inches long

A & Mommy

Checking out the paparazzi from the nursery

After a very busy couple of weeks, we are finally falling into the groove of things.  Thank you all for your prayers, visits, lunches/dinner, flowers, gifts, phone calls, texts, etc. We have had a couple of doctors visits (just check-ups), had a newborn photography session (we adore all of the pics), lots of visitors and a complete lack of sleep, HA!  I can't believe I only have 3 weeks and a few days left until I go back to work!  I am just thinking, "Only a few more months until the rest of my leave!"

We are loving being parents!  Don't get me wrong, the first couple of weeks are a huge adjustment (just things you don't think about and can't really prepare for) but seeing her sweet little face makes it all better.  Josh stayed home with me for a week before he started his new job then Mom took off last week to help me out.  This week, I've mostly been by myself, but I have sought help so I can occasionally take a nap, run errands or just take a walk and get some fresh air.  Being cooped up can be difficult, but having people around us that are helpful and supportive have made such a huge difference - thank you!  I will say this..someone told me this and it's the truth:  Being a mother is the hardest and BEST job in the world.  And I'm loving it!

Here are my two favorite pictures from AG's newborn session that she's shared - I'll post more once I get the disk:

Our sweet, sweet baby girl

I'm pretty sure this is my all-time favorite photo. Stunning.

June Baby!

Well, after a month of speculation on the big question: "Will AG be a May Flower or a June Bug?"...we have our answer!
Along with being a June baby, she will definitely be a Gemini (and zodiac twins with her uncle Hunter).  She also has 3 birthstones: pearl, moonstone and Alexandrite.

We can't wait to meet her!

39 weeks, 3 days!

Due in 5 Days - The Waiting Game Continues...

Nothing new on the pregnancy front - we are still cooking away!  Everything looks good. My BP was normal and I'm measuring right on time.  She will be evicted by 41 weeks (June 12th) so hopefully she'll decide to come on her own between now and then.

Josh and I celebrated our anniversary yesterday.  We have had such a wonderful 3 years of marriage!  We reflected a lot on what all we've had the opportunity to do in the last few years - we really are blessed beyond words.  And now we are starting a family!  Everything is just wonderful.

We spent the majority of Memorial Day weekend at DeDe's pool.  My friend, Shanna, brought her daughter, Reece, over on Saturday. Reece is 3 1/2 and we had so much fun playing with her! (Plus I got some much-needed girl time with Shanna)  Reece's new buddy is Josh (of course) and I was constantly reminded of what a great Daddy he's going to be.  I can't wait to see him with AG. 

We went that night to High Point (my favorite!) for dinner.  We decided since I was feeling really good that we should take advantage since it's been so wishy-washy lately as far as how I'm feeling.  The heat last week almost killed me and the long weekend really helped for catching up on rest.  Dinner was delicious, as always, and I'm so glad we got to go.

Now, we are just waiting patiently on AG.  Really, as much as I'd like her to be here, I really am enjoying the final days of pregnancy and quality time with J.  Life is good-nope, it's great!

-J, K & Baby A

12 Days Until June 5th - Who's counting? This girl!

Less than 2 weeks until AG's expected arrival date!

I am honestly starting to rollercoaster downhill.  I'm not much of a complainer (or at least I try to keep it to a minimum), but after an increase of X pounds to carry around, heat indexes of 100 degrees, still working out in the heat and driving all.day.long...this girl is worn out. 

Not much to tell from today's doctor's appointment.  Before she started the physical exam, she had already mentioned the possibility of being induced next week as an option.  My BP was actually a lot better than it had been and my swelling wasn't too horrible today for the 1st day all week.  After the progress check, though, we discovered my cervix hasn't changed at all.  I am still 1 cm and 50% effaced.  Since it isn't "medically necessary" to induce this early, plus she said induction is much harder without being further along in the progression, I'm going to hold off on scheduling anything. Hopefully, Avery decides to arrive on her own sooner rather than later, because I honestly don't want to make this decision. Dr. J did say that she wants to get a "game plan" together for L&D at my appointment next week, so that might be what we are faced with next week. This practice doesn't let you get to 42 weeks, so either way, I may have to be induced, but I REALLY want things to happen naturally.  But, I also don't want a 12 pounder or get to a point that I require a C-Section :) 

I'm taking tomorrow off since I am beyond exhausted, it's a holiday and our 3 year anniversary is next week!!!  I am excited and feel blessed Josh and I have gotten to spend some real quality time together over the past few months.  Sometimes when times seem tough, you don't see the silver lining, but we've definitely enjoyed it and made the most of it being just the two of us.  And although we are both anxiously awaiting the arrival of our daughter, we are committed to getting a lot of rest, continuing to get ready for her to be here and just enjoying each other's company.

If you need us this weekend, you can find us near the closest air conditioner...or swimming in DeDe's pool :)  Have a great Memorial Day!

-J, K & Baby A

P.S.  Avery wants to wish her Uncle Hunter a very HAPPY 26th Birthday!  Have fun in FL!

Me and Baby Brother (wayyyy pre-pregnancy, obviously)

... And AG is full term! The waiting begins!

Here we are at 37 weeks, 3 days!
Memphis was awesome!  We got there Friday night in time for dinner with Mom & Terry, and of course, the graduate himself.  Hunter's graduation on Saturday wasn't until later in the day, so we slept in and then all ate lunch at The BBQ Shop (BBQ spaghetti=AMAZING).  His graduation was a proud moment for the family and a fabulous Mother's Day gift for Mom - what an accomplishment!

(Cell phone pic - better quality pic to come)

My 1st Mother's Day was Sunday, according to my sweet husband.  His comment: "You have carried Avery for the last 9 months.  It is absolutely your 1st Mother's Day."

He's amazing.  This was completely unexpected. Yes, I cried.

We had another good report at the doctor yesterday...the progress continues!  I am dilated 1 cm and 50% effaced.  Of course, when the inevitable "How much longer?!" came out of J's mouth, there is no clear-cut way of knowing.  Sure, there are other pre-labor signs, some of which I have also experienced, but only time will really tell.  I watched one of the baby reality shows this week and a girl went into labor a day after finding out she was also dilated 1 cm and was 70% effaced (a little further than me, but not too much).  On the other hand, I have friends that walked around dilated to a 3 and had effaced some for weeks and still were induced on or after their due date. I'm just comfortable knowing God has her plan and I'm just staying comfortable, getting plenty of rest and rely on the fact she'll come when it's time.

I have wall decor coming for the nursery:

Clearly, it will have "avery" rather than "sarah," and I have given her my nursery colors.  I looked at it and thought "Hey, I could do that myself!"  but then reality kicked me and said "Yes, in all of your spare time." HA!

Not too much longer!  17 days. My doc said she'd be surprised if I went past my due date, but if I do, it'll be close.  I asked if she'd induce past the June 5th and she said things would have to be perfect in order for that to happen (and even so, it would be a week at most).  My BP has continued to creep up but it's only been high for me, not according to guidelines.  There are no other signs of preeclampsia or any other gestational issue (no true hypertension).  Just something they've been keeping an eye on for 3 weeks or so.

I hope everyone has a great week!  I can't help but wonder...will this one be her birthday?  :)

-J, K & A

Another Fun Weekend Ahead!

Josh and I are leaving this afternoon to celebrate Hunter's graduation from law school in Memphis!  We are so proud of all of his hard work and are keeping our fingers crossed that everything pans out in the next several months - preparing and taking the bar and of course, to find that great job!  He deserves it.

I went to my 36 week appointment yesterday - more progress!  I've almost dilated a cm and she is still head down!  She's also began to drop, which I can tell through how my belly looks (even Josh and my Mom mentioned it) but also because I'm feeling lighter up top, but more pressure below in my lower back and pelvis.  Don't worry- I did get permission from my OB to travel to Memphis this weekend, especially after I told her we were only staying a night.  Still, we have hospital bags packed and her car seat in place, just in case.

Speaking of "nesting," we are in full force.  I have washed all of her newborn to 3-month clothes, her socks, swaddle me's, gowns, towels, wash cloths and receiving blankets and put them away.  We have her nursery ready to go with everything orgranized that we will need when she first arrives: diapers, wipes, accessories (which this child definitely has), shoes, nursing gear, etc.  Plus, like I said, we are packed and ready to go for the hospital. 

I had 2 reality checks yesterday: the first after I saw that my sorority sister had her baby on Tuesday night...and she was due only 2 days before me; the second when my doctor said, "We won't stop labor is she decides it's time." YAYYYYY!

I know I've said this 100 times, but we cannot wait to meet her!  I will definitely miss being pregnant (no, seriously, I will) but we can't wait to have her here.

Have a great weekend - J, K & Baby A

Welcome, Month #9!!

36 weeks tomorrow - WOW.

Everything has still been going well!  My 35 week appointment was last Wednesday and although I haven't dilated at all, she said my cervix definitely thinning and softening (effacing) and that she thinks I'm about 30%!  I'm happy with any kind of progress - hopefully we'll keep it up!  The only SLIGHT concern from both my physician at the 34 week appointment and the other MD I saw this past week (I've seen all the doctors in the practice during my pregnancy) was an elevated blood pressure, and it was only considered high for me compared to other appointments.  I haven't been having headaches, eyesight issues, severe swelling, protein in my urine or reflex issues, so they aren't overly concerned about preeclampsia.  Hopefully, though, it will be lower on Thursday at my appointment.

We have continued to prepare for AG's arrival over the last several weeks.  Her curtains, pillow and dust ruffle are still with the seamstress and I don't have a lot of wall decor, but we love her nursery thus far.  I have been washing her teeny tiny wardrobe (cutest.things.ever) and Josh put all of her big stuff together.  He also converted the guest bedroom into our new office and it looks awesome.

I'm now just tying up loose ends at work (and finishing up her to-do list as well).  I meet with my manager on Thursday to go over plans while I'm on leave.  I'm really trying to get all of our ducks in the row in the next week, as that's 37 weeks aka FULL TERM (they wouldn't stop labor).  We are also packing for the hospital!  I cannot believe how close we are to being parents!

On another note, we've decided to keep the hospital trip (as in Avery Grace's big arrival) to only immediate family (us, our parents, siblings and grandparents).  We decided to keep things as intimate as possible, giving our close family a few days of solo bonding with Avery.  Plus, we have so many family, friends and family friends, it would just be too wild for a couple of days at the hospital.  So, we're asking for everyone to come visit us once we're home and we can enjoy visiting a little more (unless you or your kids/fam are sick, ha!).

I'll update everyone on the doctor's visit later this week :-)

Here are a couple of pics from the last week:

Another pic from our session with Cortney Smith Photography

Josh and Layla relaxing at DeDe's pool

The pool is the perfect place for the preggo and the lab :)

HAVE A GREAT WEEK!

-J, K & A